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transgendz
transgendz

My roommate and I are disabled and trans, he is recovering from a major health crisis and I had a heart scare that landed me in the ER last night. We have been waiting on a job to get me through the onboarding process and things have just kind of gotten worse.

We need help covering my upcoming appt, our storage bill, food, and transportation. Right now the last thing I need is another appt to be paying for but it's not something I can put off.

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michaelmilkers
michaelmilkers

i dont really have the words to fully articulate this at the moment but i get the feeling that people who support bringing back the term transsexual in the context of it being a distinct term from transgender with distinct qualifiers really didn't get the memo on why transsexual ever fell out of favor in the first place

michaelmilkers

like obviously if you personally identify as transsexual specifically because you have undergone processes to change your sex or wish to do that that’s your prerogative and that’s fine. but holding that as the standard definition of transsexual, or frankly taking any word we have and crafting a meaning that is based on what people do instead of who people are, is not only very reductive but it excludes people that could otherwise find that word useful or empowering, and that’s exactly why people stopped using transsexual in favor of the identity-forward transgender.

i only recently found out people have been using the word transsexual like this because in the circles i’ve been in transsexual has seen a resurgence largely as a political statement directly in response to cis people’s misinterpretation of ‘gender and sex are different’ as, at worst, ‘gender and sex are different and gender isn’t real’ and at best ‘gender and sex are different and gender is a social construct but sex is binary and immutable’. gender and sex are terms that describe different things, both are social constructs, and neither are destiny. both can be transcended and transgressed in innumerable ways. which i think is a much more expansive and empowering interpretation than “you’re transsexual if you take HRT and get surgery and you’re transgender if you Feel it”.

also it feels incredibly irresponsible to draw this rigid line between transsexuality and transgenderism when fascist-sympathizing transmedicalists are also currently doing that exact thing to the detriment of the trans community. see: buck angel

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After living 30 years as Mallory Ortberg - a single, financially independent person acclaimed for her feminist writing - Lavery felt prepared to risk the possibility of regret for an opportunity to make an interesting change.

He told himself that if living as a male and didn't like it he could also detransition, as others have.

"Essentially I thought [female to male transition] would be a really good, fun, interesting, compelling thing to do and so far at least I think that it has been."

Lavery now lives in New York with his wife Grace Lavery, a fellow writer who transitioned from male to female at the same time as his own transition.

Grace had been thinking about it for decades so it was "a real delight" for the couple to start transitioning together, Lavery says, sometimes sharing their old clothes with each other and finding their own new personal style in parallel.

No one got hurt or lost anything in the process of their individual gender transitions, he says, and the process was "fairly easy and good".

So-called trans-exclusive feminists, who invoke fear and anxiety with the message that men transitioning to women involves women losing rights, have it wrong, he says.

"Most people don't transition because they've been persuaded that men are better and there ought to be more of them or women are better and there ought to be more of them. [More often, people undergo gender transition because they think] 'I think I'd really like to be a man' or 'I think I'd really like to be a woman.""

Lavery's choice to live as a male doesn't represent a rejection of femaleness, he says.

"I loved what I got to do before and I was ready to do something else."

Daniel M Lavery: the awkwardness of gender transition

i’m regularly astounded by the cognitive dissonance some of yall have to accept that gender is a social construct with infinite possibilities with the capacity to be deeply personal and individual but still think there’s a list of like 4 acceptable sexual orientations and if you go outside of that list or mix entries on that list or relate to them in a non-traditional way not only are you Breaking The Rules you’re personally directly harming people who follow them

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